Article VI

“ Should My Mother stay at Home or Should be given to Work ??? “


A. Definition of Mother

A mother is a biological and or social female parent of an offspring. Because of the complexity and differences of a mothers' social, cultural, and religious definitions and roles, it is challenging to define a mother to suit a universally accepted definition.


B. Social Role
Mothers have historically fulfilled the primary role in raising children, but since the late 20th century, the role of the father in child care has been given greater prominence and social acceptance in some Western countries.
The social role and experience of motherhood varies greatly depending upon location. The organization Save the Children has ranked the countries of the world, and found that Scandinavian countries are the safest places to give birth, whereas countries in sub-Saharan Africa are the least safest to give birth. This study argues a mother in the bottom ten ranked countries is over 750 times more likely to die in pregnancy or childbirth, compared to a mother in the top ten ranked countries, and a mother in the bottom ten ranked countries is 28 times more likely to see her child die before reaching their first birthday.
Mothers are more likely than fathers to encourage assimilative and communion-enhancing patterns in their children. Mothers are more likely than fathers to acknowledge their children's contributions in conversation. The way mothers speak to their children is better suited to support very young children in their efforts to understand speech than fathers.

C. Should mothers stay at home with theirs children Or should be Work ?

Mothers should have freedom of their choice. It's absolutely fine if mothers work and can cope up with the household and the children. But if it is difficult for her to cope up its better to work part time. So that even the children can get the required quality time from their mothers. But, I think they should. Because these days the expenditure for various things is increasing.They should also give their helping hand to the father for maintaining it.If they are rich it is O.K but if they are poor or of a middle class family it is must.They should meet the general things like food, shelter, clothing.
According my Mother view, "Working mothers definitely have less time to spend with their children than the mothers who are at home. But it's not that a housewife is a better mother than a working mother. Even if the working mother is pressed for time, as long as she spends quality time with her child it is enough. Sometimes mothers are around the house the whole day but they don't even look at their children. They provide them with food and other facilities, but their involvement with the child is minimum. They think their presence is enough. But that is not true. It is quality time and the way you interact with your children that makes the difference."
There is Some opinion like “According to me, mothers should'nt work because in the beginning they will be able to tackle the whole responsibilities both at home and at their offices. But later they can't handle the whole responsibilities. They'll get tired,they cannot take care of their children. Nowadays this is the problem faced by most of the children by their mothers. They are not getting the love which is necessary by their mother. “ I really don’t agree with the opinion, I prefer that mothers should work, for life these days is very expensive and our culture should allow jobs equally to men and women both. Moms should work part time because they have kids to take care of too. Having some responsiblity outside the family life is also good for nurturing mind. It keeps a person busy and occupied. I am not saying that a mother should not stay with kids but doing some part time work would be beneficial for them. Working dads and moms should keep a balanced time for jobs so they can spend time with their kids. It would give children benefit to take some household responsiblities. In the end I would like to say whether a mother works or not a mother is still a mother, sweet, loving, caring she will be always be there for you when you need her.

Not sure if your mother stay at home have the good impact for her chirdreen, I take the example : Mothers’ behaviour can be, at times, negative for their children if they spoil them too much. A child should also know that things cannot always happen the way they want to, and they have to accept this. Crying and yelling aren’t always the perfect ways to impress their mother or father, in order to convenience them do certain thing. Therefore, mother who use to spoil their children to much should not give up their jobs in order to stay at home with their children, because they give up a negative education to these. Childreen will be used nothing, not even take food from the refrigerator because they know their mother is at home and does if for them. A girl won’t be able to iron a blouse because is her mother’s duty to do that for her, while she can do other things like watching TV, listening to music or applying some make – up to go out with friends.

So, I agree that My mothers should have the liberty to work as long as they are able to provide enough time and guidance to their children. My mother is a working mother of 3+ and my office timings are same as his school timings. My brother goes to a day boarding school from 8:30 AM to 4:00 PM and her office hours are 8:00 AM to :00 PM. Since the time my brother comes from school, and I come back home from the campus she is there with us. And someday I want to be like her, to be a woman carrier.